Y'all seem to qualify. From http://usnca.org/members.htm
If you are interested in becoming an active member of the Navy Counselors Association you must be currently serving or have previously served as an active or reserve Command Career Counselor, Command Master Chief, Retention Team Member, Recruiter, Detailer or Recruit Division Commander; or be a military member or civilian involved in the professional development of Sailors. Widows and widowers of deceased members or of any individual, who would, if living, be eligible for membership are also eligible.
To apply for membership, simply print, complete and send your Membership Application as directed on the form.