Sharon, contact Spence-Chapin, and request non-identifying information. I found that they were very helpful when I was searching for my husband's birth mom. Are you registered with ISRR. There is no fee, they just ask for donation, but not required. Do you know your birth name? Did you go to the library to search the birth index of one of the five boro's you were born in? Check out Sylvia website for Adoption Search. They are a great group of people who were so helpful to me.
