My name is Jessica and I'm in a relationship with a special man who I care about deeply. He explained to me that he was adopted and that he had hired an investigator to look for his natural parents ... just to see them and know who they are because he absolutely loves his adoptive mother and father very much. Unfortunately he was not successful. I think he was given at child birth; I do have a copy of his birth certificate ... to me this is something very delicate and not to be taken lightly, so I'm not reaching out blindly; I'm completely aware of how sensitive this is and I understand from a legal perspective. I feel that he feels ... disconnected somehow. He now and again expresses this to me. His choices in the past are a subtle reflection of this ... not knowing feeling; It starts accumulating. I feel for him... although he has an amazing family and a mother that cares for him (his adoptive) mom, and given everything a child needs: a home, food, education, love Etc...
I'm not sure how do I go about this. Ive looked at your columns ... the bluer for boys and red for girls and white for (unknown) ... I'm having trouble understanding it ... can you help me with advise if I may ask ... ?
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